So I played Elite Dangerous a few years back and remember flying to Hutton Orbital, which took literally like 3 hours of REAL LIFE TIME. And when I got there it was...nothing. Literally nothing. No free ship. No items. No skills gained. It was a meme base put there to troll new players. A rite of passage of a sort.

I keep hearing people demand more "space travel" out of Starfield. All I can say is THANK GOD Bethesda didn't listen to these loons and actually respects our time as human beings playing a video game.

I mean are these people serious? You want to sit there in a chair, for three or four hours, traveling from Earth to Pluto or whatever. Why? Just why!??

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My husband (30m) and I (26f) went to a concert last weekend and we’ve argued about this a couple times since but aren’t seeing each other’s pov.

I love this band and I have a favorite member. I am not attracted to this person, I just think he’s super talented. Want to mention the whole band is in their 50’s.

I was front row and really hoping to get a guitar pick as they will toss a few into the crowd after the show. As the guy was leaving the stage I shouted his name and made like a praying gesture toward him saying please! He came to the edge of the stage and tossed me the pick and I caught it. I was jumping up and down saying thank you! He nodded at me and left.

That is 100% the extent of our interaction and my husband witnessed the whole thing. He didn’t like it though. Was super mad, accused me of bouncing my boobs on purpose for the guy?? (I do not have much to bounce lol), it wasn’t that just a natural excited reaction. Says the guy had been checking me out and i was attention seeking. He found my ‘behavior’ super disrespectful and embarrassing.

I didn’t do anything at the show besides that except sing and dance a bit like everyone else. It’s a metal show it’s not like a really sexy environment just head banging or jumping around a little. I just had jeans and a top on, low cut but like I said I don’t have any cleavage.

Was I over the top? Is this like a known weird groupieish thing to do at shows or is he overreacting?

Edit for added details: No alcohol involved. Role reversal would not bother me. Husband is not typically jealous/insecure but I am a pretty low key and shy person so he doesn’t get much occasion to be. Apart from converts I don’t go out to bars/clubs, never without him, and I dress pretty modestly.

If you really want to know the band message bc it’s kinda obscure and i don’t want to id myself further

A buddy of mine recorded this a while back, two guys in our unit at the time got into it.

Forgot I had it, made me lol.

Last 2 days my entire TikTok feed is about how Taylor was at some football game to meet some guy named Travis

I mean thats great but do we really need millions of videos to comment on this?

I’m European

I honestly don’t know what to say right now.

I had been planning and researching to make a good strawberry meringue cake that I wanted to try out and put so much effort and time into this, only for my husband to fuck it up.

Last night, I caught him in the kitchen grabbing what must have been another slice since 1/4 of it was already gone. I slapped his shoulder and yelled at him that it was the cake I made for work. He claimed to not have known that it was specifically the one that I was bringing to work since I had already made a couple over the past week in preparation. The thing is I specifically told him earlier that day, and it was obvious that was the one I intended on bringing because I left it untouched and covered it. I haven’t even given my son a piece, which should have gave it away if he had any doubts.

He messed up and tried saying it wasn’t that serious because I hadn’t known this coworker for that long when I’ve known her for almost 6 months now and she’s always had my back. He said my cake didn’t fit for the occasion and it was more of a ‘springtime dessert’.

I was (and still am) so angry and his excuse was he had taken a hit from his friend's weed pen earlier and had extreme munchies and shouldn’t have eaten that much. He said he was going to the gym to work it off. I said, "Yeah, that’s great, but what exactly is that doing for me?!" His solution was to run to the store and buy something from the bakery section.

sigh